Celebrating National Volunteer Week

For National Volunteer Week, we celebrate our over 400 volunteers who generously commit their time and energy to advocating for children and youth involved in the child welfare system. This week are highlighting just three of these amazing advocates.

Elaine Cannon

What caused you to get involved with CASA? Called to serve in an area I can understand, because I lived it.

What has been the most rewarding part of being a CASA? Showing up for them.

What’s your favorite way to connect with your CASA kids? Coming to their level, listen, respond with repeating what they say so they are heard.

Please share a special moment with us about your advocacy work with your CASA kids. I’ve loved watching them improve in the last year and telling them how proud I am.

Have you used a resource that you would like to share with other CASA volunteers? When teaching them to work on reading and letters, place words and letters through out the house and point at them daily.

What would you say to someone that is on the fence about becoming a CASA? Come on and change a child’s life...they will always remember you...because you cared and you showed up.

What would you say to other aspiring women who are considering becoming a CASA volunteer? Be intentional and show up because it matters. Remember: they will always remember you

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Callie McAdams

What caused you to get involved with CASA? My degree is in Criminal Justice and I have always had a passion for social justice. In my current career, I do not use my degree but CASA allows me to make a difference in ways I never thought possible.

What has been the most rewarding part of being a CASA? Knowing that the small things do make a difference. Even just showing up for a child means the world to them because often times the people that matter are not showing up in a consistent way.

What’s your favorite way to connect with your CASA kids? I love learning about each child and finding ways for us to connect through their hobbies. On one of my cases, the child is really into makeup and cosmetology. We love talking about different beauty trends and on my next visit, I’m going to let her do my makeup!

Please share a special moment with us about your advocacy work with your CASA kids. Two years ago, one of my kids was really struggling to find his place. He is a very smart child and loves sports but was always discouraged when it came to his future. With the help of my specialist, we were able to connect him with a current NFL player/former TCU player during TCU’s Spring Game. He was able to go behind the scenes in the locker room, meet current TCU football players as well as watch the Spring Game from the sidelines. Often times, our youth who end up aging out of care don’t think of college as an option and go back to their families. I hope that the experience changed his life and showed him that he is more then his circumstances, and he can have a better life.

What would you say to someone that is on the fence about becoming a CASA? Be consistent! The traumas that these children face can be unimaginable and we need to be there during the darkest of times. They may not always appreciate what we are doing for them because it can be hard for them to see the bigger picture but our work matters. We have to be that consistent presence in their life no matter how hard the trauma is.

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Pierre Conan

What caused you to get involved with CASA? I visited a friend in hospice care a few years ago and was struck by how at peace he was. This left a profound impression on me. As I reflected on my own life and wondered what can bring such a deep sense of fulfillment and satisfaction, I decided to look to meaningful service.
After volunteering with several other organizations over the years, I knew that helping kids would be the most meaningful and rewarding to me. I started with Big Brother Big Sister and quickly found out I wanted to do more. That’s when I decided to become a CASA.

What has been the most rewarding part of being a CASA? Recently my CASA kids were discharged and had to be separated and moved to different placements. I made sure to be present on the day of their move, hoping to ease the pain and the fear as much as I could. I explained things the best I could, and reassured them I would go with them to make sure everything was ok. We read stories and played. Even though it was a tough moment for them, I hoped that knowing they weren’t alone would make things a bit less scary and stressful for them. Feeling them leaning on me for comfort was the greatest reward.

What’s your favorite way to connect with your CASA kids? I love playing games with them. Throwing the football, or playing card games like “Taco Cat Goat Cheese Pizza” is a lot of fun.

Please share a special moment with us about your advocacy work with your CASA kids. I am doing things I never imagined, and the sum of them makes CASA very special to me. The moments that are most special to me are when my CASA kids reach out to me on their own. One of my CASA kids was temporarily placed in a shelter recently and she called me to ask that I come visit her. I immediately texted my Specialist Natalie (who is absolutely amazing) with “She called me!!! She called me!!!”. And of course, I went right away!

Have you used a resource that you would like to share with other CASA volunteers? My wife is a Helping Heart, a former science teacher and currently an instructional specialist in a large public school district. She, and our many educator friends have been a tremendous help with school related matters. Without her knowledge and our friends' to point me to the right documents, to ask the right questions, or to offer me the right advice, things would have been a lot more difficult than they already were. I encourage volunteers to reach out should they need help!!!

What would you say to someone that is on the fence about becoming a CASA? Think about the kids who could use someone like you to lean on. Think about the impact you could make, and lives you could change. They are too young to know what they deserve, but you are not. Be that person for them.

Meet CASA Volunteer Heard Floore

What caused you to get involved with CASA? I became aware of CASA when I became a foster parent ten years ago. I fostered to adopt two brothers and came to know their three female siblings in the process. As these children became more comfortable with and trusting in me, they revealed more details of their past family life and their experiences in foster care. The more I learned from them, the more I realized how badly broken the state child-care system was and still is. Caring for my adopted children became my first priority and has remained that until recently. My adopted children are now twenty-five and twenty four and launched into their own adult lives -- they no longer need as much of my time and attention. But what of other children with similar trauma and damage? I feel like I can help here. Secondly, I am acutely aware of the inspiration, guidance, and aid that I received from compassionate adults who were significant in helping me create the person that I have become. I would not be the person that I am without their interventions in my childhood and i will be forever grateful for their presence in my life. All of this caring humans have passed on now but I feel the need to honor them by paying their efforts forward to other children.

What has been the most rewarding part of being a CASA? As i have progressed through my volunteer training and now in my first case, I have become more enthusiastic about the work that CASA does. I have seen both of my CASA children brighten and grow from a trauma free kinship placement. I have been inspired by their uncle a single adult with no children of his own who has stepped up and unconditionally accepted the responsibility of raising these two children. I have been encouraged to see the Trust Based Relational Intervention concepts developed by Karyn Purvis and David Cross communicated and taught by CASA. I was fortunate to stumble upon this work early in my foster parent experience and it significantly improved my parenting approach and skills. However, perhaps the most rewarding part of being a CASA volunteer has been the support and interactions that I have had with the CASA administrators and staff that I have met. Every time I walk into that office, I leave with my "spiritual battery" recharged. I am fortunate to be working with Matthew Lopez as my Child Advocacy Specialist and I could not have designed a better support person for me. But, without exception, everyone in the office has been encouraging, supportive, empathetic, and beyond helpful. This is probably the best team experience that I have ever had.

What’s your favorite way to connect with your CASA kids? By far my favorite way is person-to-person contact. Consistently being in their life as a caring adult who is unconditionally interested in their safety and welfare is what these children have rarely experienced before. All of this is best communicated face to face so that non verbal communication can be perceived along with the spoken message.

Please share a special moment with us about your advocacy work with your CASA kids. One of the CASA children in my case is a five year old girl. Now in a safe routine living in a kinship placement, she is blossoming into a happy, playful little child. On my last visit with her and her brother she was reluctant to share my time with her brother younger brother. I asked her to wait and help me play with her brother before spending exclusive play time with her. She was very happy to be given the job of playing with her brother and me. I have previously discovered that she likes to be helpful and to be given responsibility. After playing with her, i was preparing to leave when she came up to me and tried to give me a full body hug which i turned into a side hug. She said, " I love you and I wish you lived here with us all the time."

Have you used a resource that you would like to share with other CASA volunteers? When I was parenting my adopted children the best resource that I found was The Connected Child by Purvis and Cross. It changed my approach to parenting and gave me some effective tools to deal with my boys. i was also able to gain some guidance and strategies from The Whole-Brain Child by Siegel and Bryson. From the list I obtained from CASA, I found and read The Connected Parent by Purvis and Qualls. I believe this would be a better source of TBRI concepts for most of our clients as the book puts emphasis upon the importance of knowing and caring for yourself as the parent of a child from rough places. All of us adults have experienced imperfect parenting in our childhoods and it is very important to identify and resolve lingering issues from our own childhood before attempting to help traumatized children deal with their own demons. Additionally, the age appropriate strategies that Siegel and Bryson present are very effective helping children (and ourselves) integrate the left and right brain functions with the logical and emotional sections of the human brain. I highly recommend all three of these books.

What would you say to someone that is on the fence about becoming a CASA? I would tell them why I do this work. I have seen traumatized children grow into adults trapped in self destructive cycles of attitude and behaviors because that is all they know. I have seen abused children become abusing adults because that is their normal, comfortable way of life. I have seen cycles of abuse, addiction, and neglect transfer from generation to generation in which victims become victimizers who prey upon their descendents. But I have seen individuals who were able to transcend their beginnings and break these negative cycles also. Our history is full of individuals who have overcome many obstacles to achieve great things. Usually they were able to do this because they had contact with compassionate, empathetic individuals who acted as sources of inspiration, encouragement, support, and knowledge. Significant individuals who provided the necessary qualities that enabled children from hard places to transform themselves into a much better version of themselves. None of these children are throw-away children; all could be salvaged and able to lead exemplary lives. Yet, to achieve this successful outcome, other humans must contribute unconditionally their time, energy, and effort to provide alternative paths. Today, there are too many traumatized children growing up around us and too few volunteers to reach all of these children. Too many abused children fall through society's cracks and pass their lifestyle on to their own children. In the end all members of society are affected by this. CASA is an organization devoted to helping children change their lives into more healthy, sustainable choices -- but there are not enough of us to reach most of these children. In the history of mankind on this earth, our individual life spans make up a brief moment or two at best but the effect of those lives can last much longer. One of the early life changing adults in my life was my great grandmother. Her death was almost seventy-five years ago, yet the lessons that she taught me continue to live on in me and every person to whom I am, have been, or will be significant. These children need you and your guidance which will long outlast your presence on this earth. Isn't that what we are here for?

Meet CASA Volunteer Alicia Allen

What caused you to get involved with CASA? I wanted to understand the foster care system and I have a passion for kids and education.

What has been the most rewarding part of being a CASA? The smiles and hugs from the kids. Being able to identify resources to help the families.

What’s your favorite way to connect with your CASA kids? Sitting talking. Visiting at school and walking through their assignments.

Please share a special moment with us about your advocacy work with your CASA kids. One of my kids was standoffish. Her walls hadn't come down. On a visit I just sat with her and comforted her. Her aunt and uncle noticed that on a follow up visit she was more talkative and excited to see me.

Have you used a resource that you would like to share with other CASA volunteers? The freereadingprogram.org and free laptops to help the kids increase reading skills.

What would you say to someone that is on the fence about becoming a CASA? It's rewarding. Not overly time consuming and gives you purpose.

Meet CASA Volunteer Shannon Shivers

What caused you to get involved with CASA? A strong desire to positively help the children in our community who find themselves in care.

What has been the most rewarding part of being a CASA? Seeing the smiles on the children's faces when they see me. And, seeing them return to safe and loving homes.

What’s your favorite way to connect with your CASA kids? I love working with school age children the most. I love to simply talk with them and find out the things they like and dreams they have.

Please share a special moment with us about your advocacy work with your CASA kids. Honestly, there have been many and each case has plenty of special moments. But, my first case involved five children and took over five years for all to have permanent homes. That was an incredible day! Unusual for sure, but one of the happiest days of all.

Have you used a resource that you would like to share with other CASA volunteers? There are so many amazing resources in our area. Utilize your specialist and other advocates to help you navigate them. I don't think any need is too much to find.

What would you say to someone that is on the fence about becoming a CASA? It is incredibly rewarding to have this special opportunity to work with children in the foster care system. Each one of us makes a huge impact on their lives and gives them hope and support during what we all pray is the worst thing to ever happen to them. You won't regret it!

Meet CASA Volunteer Jennifer Mauricio

CASA Volunteer Jennifer Mauricio

When asked what brought her to CASA, CASA volunteer Jennifer Mauricio said, “When I moved to the US I had to start over, and someone was there to help and mentor me. Now I want to pass that help on to foster kids through advocacy.”

Not only is Jennifer an advocate for kids in foster care, but she also fosters a pup in her home. Jennifer says, “You can tell a lot about a community by how they treat their elderly, their foster kids, and their pets. The most vulnerable groups.”

Child Advocacy Specialist Nadia Gomez

Jennifer’s Child Advocacy Specialist Nadia Gomez said, “Working in the foster care system for several years, it became evident that children in our community deeply need dedicated people in their life that offer consistency, support, and to be their voice in difficult times. Our CASA advocates do that! As a Specialist it is exciting to work hand in hand with Advocates that are passionate and see the importance to be the voice for the children in our community! “

Meet CASA Volunteer Orpha Valverde

What caused you to get involved with CASA? I am a retired teacher and a former foster mom and I felt CASA was a great organization to be a part of advocating for children in what could be one of their most trying times of their young lives.

What has been the most rewarding part of being a CASA?  Watching my CASA kids relax and open up when they realize they  are being  seen and heard.  My CASA kids have been in foster care for a few years and I realized early on that I was  going to be that one constant person in this chapter of their lives. I appreciate them for allowing me into their life.

What’s your favorite way to connect with your CASA kids? My CASA kids live in the Metroplex area and I prefer scheduling face to face visits with each one of them. I generally make time for them to share with me their favorite hobbies, reading, sports, listening to their favorite music, and yes, even being taught one  their favorite TikTok dances! During these casual visits they see I am there just  for them.

Please share a special moment with us about your advocacy work with your CASA kids. An unforgettable moment was when I went to visit with one of my CASA kids after he found out that after five years in foster care his wish of being adopted was becoming reality. He greeted me with the biggest smile I have ever seen on his face! It melted my heart. I can’t wait to be there with him when he officially gets his Forever Family.

Have you used a resource that you would like to share with other CASA volunteers? My CASA Specialist, Dapril is the best. She is always just a text or call away. She keeps me informed of upcoming school supply give aways, reading material for kids, holiday gifts and resources for the foster families.

What would you say to someone that is on the fence about becoming a CASA? It is a rewarding experience because as an advocate you create a safe space for a child to build and experience  what a healthy relationship looks like.

Meet CASA Volunteer Cynthia Thompson, LPC

What caused you to get involved with CASA? I have a colleague from many years ago who was a CASA. He always talked about how rewarding it was and he even took me with him to a training that he presented for the other volunteers. I have always kept that in the back of my mind. I am at stage in my life where I am ready to do something new. I chose this as my time to volunteer as a CASA.

What has been the most rewarding part of being a CASA? Meeting the child that I am working with and seeing how motivated the members of his family are to make the changes necessary to make him know that he is loved. The child I am working with is very happy and energetic. He knows that he is surrounded by the people who love him and are working to keep him safe.

What's your favorite way to connect with your CASA kids? My family is located a couple of hours from the metroplex. I generally face time or zoom with my CASA kid. I have made one face-to-face visit with him. It was nice to be in his energy in person.

Please share a special moment with us about your advocacy work with your CASA kids. Meeting my CASA kid face-to-face for the first time. It was after school so he had lots of energy. We met outside of his home in the courtyard. It was nice to watch him play with his friends. I was able to observe him interacting and lividing his life on his turf. He stopped playing with his friends for a few minutes to spend time with me. We did a crossword puzzle. It was the first time that he had every done one so he was very excited. I was happy to have reached that milestone with him.

Have you used a resource that you would like to share with other CASA volunteers? My main resource is My CASA specialist - Gabby. If I have a question or am unsure about something, I do not hesitate to contact her. She is very approachable and has been very patient with me. Sh3 keeps me on track.

What would you say to someone that is on the fence about becoming a CASA? Go for it! It feels great to do something for others - especially kids.

Meet CASA Volunteer Pam Darrow

What caused you to get involved with CASA? My increasing concern about human trafficking in the DFW area

What has been the most rewarding part of being a CASA? The occasions when my CASA kids are thriving, acting like normal teenagers, and can see a positive future for their lives. As I have worked with teens, I enjoy helping them with life skills for independent living. I was also thrilled when one of my teens asked if could buy a Bible for her. I gave her a teen study Bible and a card with verses to help when you are feeling certain emotions.

What’s your favorite way to connect with your CASA kids? Visits and phone calls, discussions of their interests and activities

Please share a special moment with us about your advocacy work with your CASA kids. One of my kids told me that she loves me totally out of the blue, I finally felt that she was beginning to trust me. Another realized that she doesn’t want to just survive, but wants to live a good life.

Have you used a resource that you would like to share with other CASA volunteers? Attending 5 Stones Task Force monthly meetings, the anti human trafficking task force for Tarrant county. I have heard many speakers who have been helpful to me as a CASA and have contacted some speakers for further information and guidance. I have also learned a great deal about trauma and how to relate to those with a trauma past by reading the book “The Body Keeps The Score”.

What would you say to someone that is on the fence about becoming a CASA? Being a CASA is a great way to contribute to the community and helping to break the cycle of abuse and neglect. It can be emotionally challenging, but very rewarding if you can compartmentalize issues and remain positive in your life. It helps a great deal to have a Helping Heart who does some CASA training so that you have an extra sounding board when you need it.

Meet CASA Volunteer Susan Jarratt

1. What made you decide to become a CASA? I’ve always dreamed of becoming a CASA.  As an educator, I’ve taught foster children, and they usually move to a new placement quickly.  I wanted the opportunity to have a positive impact on a foster child in a more profound and meaningful way.

2. What has been the most rewarding part of being a CASA? Recently two of my kids were placed with foster parents that were brand new.  They couple didn’t know the ages of the children so it was hard for them to prepare.  After finding out their needs, I was able to reach out to the community and get toys, books, clothes, and diapers.  The first time I saw my boys in their new placement, they were so excited!  Seeing them happy and seeing them grow both physically and emotionally is so rewarding. 

3. Please share a special moment with us about your advocacy work with your CASA kid or on your case. Recently two of my kids were placed with foster parents that were brand new.  They couple didn’t know the ages of the children so it was hard for them to prepare.  After finding out their needs, I was able to reach out to the community and get toys, books, clothes, and diapers.  The first time I saw my boys in their new placement, they were so excited!  Seeing them happy and seeing them grow both physically and emotionally is so rewarding. 

4. What is your favorite way to connect with your CASA kids? I love reading with my CASA kids.  Even if I do a virtual visit, I always send them the book so they can enjoy it over and over again.  My Kindergartener is now hooked on Piggy & Elephant books.  Sharing that joy is priceless.

5. Why do you think having a CASA volunteer throughout such a chaotic time is important for foster children? Being a CASA allows the children some consistency and positivity during a time of chaos.  Consistency helps them feel safe, and that’s what they need most.

Meet CASA Volunteer Charlotte Toerck

What made you decide to become a CASA? I have been blessed with a close family, good education and a fulfilling career.  For most of my life the focus has been on family and career.  There  never seemed to be enough time to give to a worthy cause.  After retirement, I started searching for something I could do that would make a quantifiable difference in the lives of others.  A quote that has been attributed to Mahatma Gandhi among others has always resonated with me.  "The true measure of any society can be found in how it treats its most vulnerable members."  As I was researching volunteer opportunities, it became clear that children in Foster Care are among the most vulnerable members in society.  A friend told me about CASA and the work it does for these children.  I was immediately drawn to this cause and became a CASA volunteer to help children who need an advocate to be their voice when they are feeling hopeless and powerless.

What has been the most rewarding part of being a CASA? Being a CASA has been rewarding in so many ways it is difficult to single out just one.  However, the most consistently rewarding part of being a CASA volunteer is being able to form a bond of trust with the children I work with as well as the significant adults in their lives.  This takes time and effort given the circumstances that resulted in their being involved in the Foster Care system.  This bond is the foundation on which my advocacy is built.  It creates an atmosphere that allows open communication about the wants, needs, and hopes of each individual.  This allows me to focus advocacy on the most important issues from their perspective.  It also helps identify issues that can be addressed with existing resources of which they are not aware.  Being able to help children get their immediate needs met and building hope for the future is for me the most rewarding part of being a CASA.

Please share a special moment with us about your advocacy work with your CASA kid or on your case. I have been a CASA for one child for four years.  She is now a teenager and has been involved with the juvenile justice system for the last two years.  During this time, she has gone for months with no contact with her family or professionals assigned to her case.  Although I can't call her while she is in detention, she calls me several times a week to talk about her successes, challenges and ask for advice about things that are important to most teenage girls.  I make sure to visit her as often as I can - especially on birthdays and holidays.  Recently we were talking about an upcoming Court Hearing.  I wanted to make sure that my report accurately portrayed her wants and needs regarding conditional release from detention.  At the end of the conversation, she thanked me for speaking up for her and making her wishes known to the Court.  Then she said, "I trust you, man.  You're my family, ya know?"  This was both rewarding and humbling as I realized the pivotal role my involvement played in the darkest and most difficult times in her young life. 

What is your favorite way to connect with your CASA kids? Connecting with my CASA kids varies depending on their age.  However, in person visits when possible are my favorite way of  connecting with all of my children.  With my younger children, we play games, colour or read.  This gives us a chance to talk about significant events in their lives in a natural setting.  With my older children, we may draw, do crafts, or just talk.  I know that I've formed a connection with them when they start wanting the relationship to be reciprocal.  They start asking me how my week was, my plans for the future, and many of the same questions I typically ask them!  That is when I know we've formed a true trust-based connection.  

Why do you think having a CASA volunteer throughout such a chaotic time is important for foster children? A CASA volunteer provides consistency as a child is moved from placement to placement and as the professionals assigned to their case come and go.  The CASA is  the 'historian' for the child.  They literally speak for the child to others who only know what they learned by reviewing files.   By knowing and sharing the child's history and using it as the basis of their advocacy, the CASA helps reduce the chaos, stress and fear the child experiences

Meet CASA Volunteer Norma Davila

What made you decide to become a CASA? From an early age and based on personal life experiences as a child, I felt led to serve children in my community. Prior to volunteering with CASA I served elementary aged children through ECP (Early Childhood Professional) and young moms with unplanned pregnancies through Embrace Grace. Throughout this time, I realized that the need for someone to speak up starts at an early age. By lending my time and utilizing CASA as a platform, I have had the privilege of seeing families reuniting and new families formed, while loving and supporting those still on their journey.

What has been the most rewarding part of being a CASA? The most rewarding aspect of being a CASA for me is witnessing a development of confidence, security, and character in each one of my cases. Not one has been the same, but I have been able to find joy in watching each of the children grow and let their inner light truly shine.

Please share a special moment with us about your advocacy work with your CASA kid or on your case. I can recall, on a recent visit during candid conversation with the two twin girls on my current case I asked these beautiful sisters “What would you girls like for your birthday?” to which they replied, almost in unison, “Ride a pony!!”. I thought instantly of how I could make this dream come true. With Foster Mom's permission, I was able to quickly gather a local Trusty Steed owner and a couple of pairs of boots for the girls. Before no time, we were on our way to a horse ride! The joy that radiated from each of their faces was a sight to see. Definitely one of the most special moments as a CASA.

What is your favorite way to connect with your CASA kids? My favorite way to connect with my CASA kids always includes a book or two! During Covid, while we were only permitted to video calls, reading books to them was something we all looked forward to. Foster mom even asked me to record myself reading one that became their favorite, so that she could play it for them at bed time.  Even now, when I arrive for my in-home visits, the sisters come running with a book in hand.

Why do you think having a CASA volunteer throughout such a chaotic time is important for foster children? I believe that having a CASA is important because oftentimes we are the only consistent face in their life. The security in knowing and recognizing a voice and face during an uncertain time can bring much peace. 

Meet CASA Volunteer Bill Huston

Meet CASA Volunteer Bill Huston! Bill has lived in Southlake for the last 29 years. Originally from Oak Ridge, TN, Bill moved to the DFW area from Tampa, FL, in 1993 when the healthcare business he was working for opened an office in Dallas. When Bill first moved to Texas, he was the Senior Vice President (SVP) of Finance for Tenet. Later, he took on the role of SVP for Triad Hospitals, Inc., located in Plano. When they sold the company in 2007, he decided to retire and step away from the business world. That didn’t last long though, and soon Bill was working as the SVP of Finance for a hospice company. He retired for a second time in 2013 and enjoyed the slower pace of retirement for a short time before getting restless once again. He soon stepped into the role of CFO for Scottish Rite for Children. In 2020, with an assist from Covid, he decided to try retirement a third time, and this time it worked. He has no interest in having another paid position and is perfectly content with his role as a full time Uber driver for his grandkids – so far, it’s the best job he’s ever had.

Bill enjoys spending time with his family – his three children, their spouses, and his eight grandchildren. His daughter, Hollee, is married to Sam Ford, and together they have four children: Marlee (14), Lilly (14), Beau (14), and Nash (7). Bill’s oldest son, Chad, is married to Lisa, and they have a daughter, Zinnia (6). Heath is the youngest of Bill’s children and is married to JuliAnne. They have three children: Everly (8), Charlotte (6), and Jett (1).

Bill’s family has many traditions, but his favorite is taking a one-week family vacation each year with the entire gang. Although it’s challenging with such a large group, everyone enjoys the adventure and time spent together. This past year, they traveled to the North Island of Turks and Caicos, which Bill says may be one of the best vacations they’ve had together.

When Bill isn’t traveling or driving the grandkids around, you can often find him at hot yoga or outdoors taking part in a variety of sports. He currently plays on two senior softball teams and two senior baseball teams, and plays pickleball, tennis, and golf. According to Bill, his very active lifestyle helps him hang with the grandkids. Bill is also a volunteer CFO for E3 in Plano, a non-profit organization that establishes churches all over the world and supports missionaries in many foreign countries.

In addition to E3, Bill spends several hours a month volunteering for one of his favorite organizations, CASA of Tarrant County. Bill is a court-appointed volunteer with CASA, taking an oath to advocate for the best interest of children. As an advocate, Bill speaks for children in court, making fact-based recommendations for placement to the judge based on his discussions with the children, family members, teachers and others to find out where the children will be happiest and safest. Bill is a reliable constant for children who are experiencing a chaotic time in their lives.

According to Bill, one of the most rewarding parts of being a CASA is the unique connection you have with your assigned child. “It’s just simple moments of spending time with the child. My child is a little introverted – spends lots of time on social media. I’ve had him on a skateboard, throwing a football, and shooting basketball. I think all kids should sweat some after school, and I encourage my child to enjoy the outdoors – although I did have to make a deal with him to play Uno each time I was there. It’s been a very humbling experience.”

Although Bill had some initial concerns as to whether he was qualified to navigate the maze of agencies often required for foster children, the CASA organization has helped him every step of the way. They have the best support system and will take a problem or issue if it’s beyond Bill’s knowledge or experience.

Bill encourages other adults to consider becoming a CASA. It takes about five hours a month and your initial commitment is one year. He especially encourages men to get involved. “If you want to change a family tree – come join us. These boys need a father figure in their life – someone they can reach out to if they happen to change foster parents or an event in their life where they need to feel secure or cared for. They didn’t choose their circumstance, but we as men can choose to get involved. I don’t think giving five hours of our time is much of a request when you have a child in need.”

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Bill is the featured neighbor of the month of December in Stroll Our Neighborhood Magazine! In this feature, Bill talks about his work with CASA. Click here to read.

Meet CASA Volunteer Allison Wendler

What made you decide to become a CASA? I have always been interested in foster care and adoption. I have been a both a foster parent and an adoptive parent and I know how badly these kids need someone on their side. Plus I believe that if you have a cause you are highly interested in that you should get involved and do something. Many hands make light work and the world would be a better place if everyone just pitched in a little!

What has been the most rewarding part of being a CASA? The most rewarding part of being a CASA is knowing that my work has made an impact on the case. My child’s case has been topsy turvy with many changes in placement, school, caseworker, family involvement, etc. in a relatively short amount of time. If he did not have a CASA there would be no one familiar with the case from start to finish.

Please share a special moment with us about your advocacy work with your CASA kid or on your case. Recently I was unable to visit my child in person and had to FaceTime. I was initially worried how this would go as he is pretty young and not much into conversation. However, it ended up being one of our best visits. He was so interested in my family, pets, home and it was fun to see him come out of his shell asking questions and interacting. An hour flew by!

What is your favorite way to connect with your CASA kids? When I visit with my child I like to bring several options: books, games, puzzles, craft and let him choose what he wants to do. That is usually play a game or do a puzzle. I also like to take him lunch at school. I think every child feels extra special when a grown up shows up at school with a special meal and this is a good way to let them know that they are important!

Why do you think having a CASA volunteer throughout such a chaotic time is important for foster children? I think it is important for a child to have a consistent face during this chaotic time. When placements, caseworkers, etc. are unpredictable it is important for them to know that *someone* is going to consistently show up for them. Many of these kids have never had an adult in their life that was reliable. This helps lay the foundation for trust and attachment when they get to their permanent place. Also, from a practical standpoint, it is good to have someone who is familiar with the case from beginning to end and can help brief everyone when there are changes.

Meet CASA Volunteer Janet Shearer

What made you decide to become a CASA? Personal life experiences are what called me to become involved in CASA, a way to bring a voice to the children who needed it most. Throughout my life I have witnessed children, friends, and students experience hardships of things they had no control over. A safe place to live, regular meals and support to develop emotionally, developmentally and academically. As a mother, I watched my own children bring friends home who were not being provided their basic needs. As a teacher I worked with children who often did not have their basic needs met. Growing up with a special needs sister I understand when people can not speak for themselves speaking up for them is the right thing to do.

What has been the most rewarding part of being a CASA? The most rewarding part of being a CASA is stepping up and trying to help children that you know now are hurting. On my first CASA case there were two girls, seven and an infant. Their biological mother had mental health issues, in addition to other things. The mother relied on her seven year old to care for not only the newborn, but her as well. As the story unfolded the girls moved back with the bio dad and new wife. I like to think back to a time when I brought lunch for my CASA kid at school. I listened to her talk about her dad and his wife. She seemed so happy. She talked about kid thigs like roller skating and going fishing with her dad. It gave me peace when the decision was made.

Please share a special moment with us about your advocacy work with your CASA kid or on your case. My favorite way to to connect with my CASA kids is meeting them at their school for lunch. It is a great opportunity to learn more about them and see them with their teachers and friends. I find out about the classes they are taking, and what they like to eat. Most importantly, I get to spend time with them without their bio and foster siblings. It re enforces that I am there for them and them only. I enjoy spending time with my casa kids and love bringing a smile to their face.

Why do you think having a CASA volunteer throughout such a chaotic time is important for foster children? A CASA provides stability. Foster homes, schools, family dynamics, rules, expectations and friendships all change, way too often for these children. It is a unfamiliar and an often scary time for them. A CASA advocate can be the only adult that stays in contact with them throughout this process. It is this reason I try to really work with foster parents because they spend the most time with the kids and its hard if they keep changing foster homes. Also if possible, I have siblings move to the same foster home so they don't have to worry about their siblings.

Meet CASA Volunteer Melody Cabrera

What made you decide to become a CASA? This is something that I was inclined to do. I'm a very giving person and I love to do for others, especially those individuals who feel hopeless and helpless. If I can be a motivation to others by sharing my own life experiences to give them hope for the future, then I'm all about it!

What has been the most rewarding part of being a CASA? The most rewarding part is seeing my CASA kids grow in every aspect. They were a little shy at the beginning and now they are always looking forward to my visits and sharing all their accomplishments and future goals. They are part of my family now.

Please share a special moment with us about your advocacy work with your CASA kid or on your case. I arranged a birthday party for my CASA kids at Urban Air and they were so happy to have all their family there. Just to see them smile and be so appreciative made my day. 4. What is your favorite way to connect with your CASA kids? My favorite way to connect with my CASA kids is face-to-face. I have a great time connecting with them and we always have encouraging conversations.

Why do you think having a CASA volunteer throughout such a chaotic time is important for foster children? It's a way to escape some of their harsh reality through positive experiences. Sharing your journey with them gives them perspective on their own lives and helps them get through obstacles. They need to have someone who is strong and caring on their team and who wants their best interest always.

Meet CASA Volunteer Kyla Richardson

Name: Kyla Richardson
Months/Years volunteering: 3.5 years
Children helped: 9
Favorite thing about CASA: My favorite thing about being a CASA is creating a relationship with each child and seeing how resilient each kiddo is in the face of every circumstance. I have loved seeing the support that a CASA can provide play out in family reunification.
Inspirational quote: Each child has taught me how to be a better person. Each child I have worked with has shown grace, forgiveness and hope. You truly are able to see how each kiddo can overcome their current challenges and change the world.
When not volunteering: I am a 7th Grade science Teacher and coach.
Fun fact: I am tall enough to put up Christmas lights on my house without a ladder.

Meet CASA Volunteer Rebekah Sweetenham

What made you decide to become a CASA? In my former career, I spent countless hours processing crime scenes and analyzing forensic evidence often involving children who were victims of domestic violence, abuse, and/or innocent bystanders. Needless to say, I quit that job and moved across state not really knowing what I was going to put my energy into. This would be the first time I had the bandwidth to do something I had always wanted to do, VOLUNTEER.  I believe our trajectory in life begins when we are born. It only takes one person or one experience to change that. Support for our youth and those experiencing generational trauma are at the height of importance. I want to be that constant, that unwavering love and safe haven. I want to be a facilitator of information, hope, and security. That friend that listens without judgement, a cheerleader, and a soundboard. 

What has been the most rewarding part of being a CASA? The most rewarding part is that smile, when they feel safe with you and are at peace. Listening to their dreams in life. Experiencing milestones together…learning to speak, progressing in school, overcoming behavioral differences. 

Please share a special moment with us about your advocacy work with your CASA kid or on your case. I am especially grateful for every waking moment with my kids. 

What is your favorite way to connect with your CASA kid(s)? It’s always fun to connect doing something interactive. I like to verbally validate their feelings and consistently let them know I am here for them and no one else. I find that asking questions is just a bore for the kids. When visiting, I don’t bring my phone or any other distractions. I ensure they have my undivided attention whether it is face to face or otherwise. I give them the opportunity to lead the conversation and step in if I feel they are struggling. I like to visit with no expectations leaving room for organic interaction. Sometimes we don’t converse and that’s okay. Expression has many forms and who am I to dictate what that is for the children?

Why do you think having a CASA volunteer throughout such a chaotic time is important for foster children? I feel like uncertainty is the root of fear. We fear what we don’t know. Navigating life is hard enough as an adult. These kids meet a multitude of people during placement and lengthy court proceedings. I CHOSE to move to a new town at 38 years old and it was HARD. These children are thrust into a new life, with sometimes multiple placements (often strangers), new schools, doctors, friends, “pseudo”siblings, and all of the professionals they are trusting to keep them safe. A CASA provides a routine of sorts to help keep them grounded and gives them assurance that though the world is spinning around them, they know where true north is. We have the privilege to act as a compass when they feel lost. What a gift it is to be a CASA.

Meet CASA Volunteer Sara Armbrecht

What made you decide to become a CASA? I was first introduced to CASA years ago through Kappa Alpha Theta.  The pandemic inspired me to prioritize and carve out time for something I’d always wanted to do.

What has been the most rewarding part of being a CASA? It’s the little things --- the smiles and hugs from the children, a thank you from a bio or foster parent or the sense of accomplishment when you solve a problem. I joined CASA because I wanted to be a bright light in a child’s life and what I underestimated was how much it would make a difference in my life.   

Please share a special moment with us about your advocacy work with your CASA kid or on your case. As I was leaving a visit with the kids, saying my goodbyes, the little five-year-old waved me off with a “Be Good, Sara!” That moment just warmed my heart.  

After months of one of my CASA kiddos not getting the play therapy he needed, he was finally placed on the list with a 6 month wait. I made some phone calls and found a play therapist that could see him the following week.  These kids often just need someone who will put in a little extra time and effort and follow up on their behalf.   

What is your favorite way to connect with your CASA kid(s)? I love arts and crafts, reading stories or time at a playground. You can learn a lot through observing kids in action and it also gives them an opportunity to open up while having fun.

Why do you think having a CASA volunteer throughout such a chaotic time is important for foster children?There are so many kids in need of love, support and consistent adults in their lives.  CASA volunteers’ presence can have a lasting impact on their foster care experience and their childhood.  This not only benefits these children but extends to their families, schools and ultimately our community as a whole. 

Meet CASA Volunteer Andrini Hendarton

What made you decide to become a CASA? I truly believe every child deserves the chance to have a bright future.  A CASA volunteer in my Facebook network shared posts about the organization, and I was inspired to serve as the voice of the child 

What has been the most rewarding part of being a CASA? I am a new volunteer, and have had 2 cases of younger children.  The most rewarding part is helping and seeing them “be a child” despite what they have experienced

Please share a special moment with us about your advocacy work with your CASA kid or on your case. With the help of CASA I signed up one child in a little league baseball and another child in piano lessons.  I very much looked forward to watching them play baseball and playing a song on the piano

What is your favorite way to connect with your CASA kid(s)? Since both of my cases are younger children, I bring board games, coloring books on my visits so I can engage with the children in a playful setting.  That has helped form a connection and they know I am there to support them

Why do you think having a CASA volunteer throughout such a chaotic time is important for foster children? I believe it is important for the children to know there are people on their side, whose primary concerns are to care about their well-being.  There might have been changes in their lives, but a CASA volunteer is a constant presence they can depend on.

Meet CASA Volunteer Diane Foster

What made you decide to become a CASA?
I was a teacher/educator for 35 years. I taught many children that were in the foster care system. Most of those children did not have an advocate. When I retired, I knew that CASA was exactly what I wanted to become. I wanted to help those precious children that needed a cheerleader just for them.

What has been the most rewarding part of being a CASA? This is my first time to be a CASA. I have had the same two little boys for 18 months. The most rewarding part of being a CASA is seeing the boys’ progress. When I first saw the boys, they were sad and missed their mom and dad. They were placed in a very loving home and bonded with their kinship mom and dad. They soon became very happy, giggly, busy little guys.

Please share a special moment with us about your advocacy work with your CASA kid or on your case. When I first became a CASA volunteer, it was the beginning of the COVID lock-down. I first met my little boys (age 2 and 4), via Zoom. What an experience that was! Once a week we would visit by Zoom. Now I know why it is called zoom….the boys would zoom around the room as I read them a book or sang them a song. Finally, the day came when I got to meet them face-to-face. I met them at a park. I thought they would not know me with my mask. The minute they saw me they ran across the park saying, “Miss Diane, Miss Diane.” What a special day that was!

What is your favorite way to connect with your CASA kid(s)? During our COVID Zoom visits, I bought them and me the same set of hand puppets. To keep them focused we would do some story role plays and “act” silly. Now that I see them once a week, we play at the park and have snacks. I always like to help them celebrate special holidays and of course, their birthdays.

Why do you think having a CASA volunteer throughout such a chaotic time is important for foster children? A CASA is the one constant person during this difficult time. One of my boys was in a foster home that was not the best place for him and he was not with his little brother. I advocated for him to be removed and placed in the same home with his little brother. My boys also have had 3 different caseworkers come and go. I have truly learned the meaning of advocate these last 18 months. I am at every hearing with the judge advocating for the safety of my boys. Also, I could not do my work without the amazing help from my CASA Specialist!