Social Work - the “Helping Profession”

Social Work - the “Helping Profession” by Child Advocacy Specialist Emalee Lyne, LMSW

Why are Social Workers Important?

Social work is often named the “helping profession”. The primary mission of the social work profession, “is to enhance human well-being and help meet basic and complex needs of all people, with a particular focus on those who are vulnerable, oppressed, and living in poverty.”1 Brené Brown says, “Social work is all about leaning into the discomfort of ambiguity and uncertainty, and holding open an empathic space so people can find their own way. In a word—messy.”2

Social workers work in many areas including aging, behavioral health, child welfare, clinical social work, counseling, crisis management, healthcare, non-profit management, public policy, school social work, substance abuse, and social and economic justice. Social workers provide knowledge, education, and encouragement to change whole communities. “When social workers are active in a community, it tends to have a positive impact on crime rates, health statistics, school attendance and employment.”3 In order to make a difference in communities, we see the importance of both large-scale change and individual change of those who make up the communities. The social work process includes meeting people and communities where they are at, assessing the situation and identifying strengths, assisting in developing individual and community goals, initiate strategies and interventions, and then monitor for success.

Social workers are important because they do not shy away from hard situations. They are not afraid to enter communities and the lives of individuals. Social workers build trust, show empathy, and walk with others to create change. Social workers do not provide instructions and then leave. We allow others to lead the way and walk alongside them, often carrying some of the baggage to make their load lighter. 

As a Licensed Master Social Worker, I believe my skills and background assist me in my role as a Child Advocacy Specialist. I not only am able to display social work values and helping skills directly to children and families, but I am able to model and teach our volunteers. I believe these small moments of teaching can create more social-work minded individuals in our community. This will hopefully lead to socially conscious community members, create positive social change, and increase compassion and love for one another.  

1.     https://www.socialworkers.org/Careers/NASW-Career-Center/Explore-Social-Work/Why-Choose-the-Social-Work-Profession

2.     Brené Brown, Daring Greatly: How the Courage to Be Vulnerable Transforms the Way We Live, Love, Parent, and Lead

3.     https://onlinemsw.fsu.edu/blog/social-worker-role

Meet Board Member Lindsey Freeman

Please write a short message of support for volunteers. I know the commitment and dedication it takes to volunteer at CASA. The work you do is important and I hope you experience fulfillment knowing the positive impact you are having on these children's lives!

Why are you involved with CASA? CASA is an incredible organization that helps children (and families) get through some of the hardest times in their lives. I can't think of a more worthy mission!  

What first caused you to get involved with CASA? I heard about CASA through friends and decided to become an advocate a few years ago. I've since been on the Women's Council and I'm honored to become a board member.  

What keeps you coming back every month to help CASA? I love seeing the success stories and knowing that children with a CASA are more likely to be reunited with their families or find a permanent home. I want every child that needs a CASA to have one.  

What would you say to a potential supporter? Do it! Being an advocate is one of the best things I've ever done! And there are other ways to become involved or help - Young Professional Council, the Women's Council, donations, hosting information sessions at your office or church, getting the word out to potential advocates.  

Why do you think it’s important for your local community to support CASA and what they do? As a community we must support some of our most vulnerable children. They deserve someone that focuses on their best interests and well being.

Meet Admissions Specialist Brianna Williams

Why did you decide to come work for CASA? I wanted to do something where I felt like I was making an impact and joining CASA made me realize that I’m a part of shaping a child’s future for the better. I couldn’t think of a better reason to wake up in the morning.

What is your professional and educational background? I went to Stephen F. Austin State University and have a Bachelor’s Degree in English. Professionally I have only worked in the corporate world in HR.

What first caused you to get involved with CASA? The mission of CASA really inspired me. Being a mom, I can’t even imagine what these families are experiencing, so anything I could do to help bring peace in such a scary situation is truly motivating.

What keeps you coming back every month in helping CASA? The people I get to talk to! My role is to interview incoming volunteers and hearing their stories and their histories is such an honor.

What has been the most rewarding part of being on staff at CASA? The education and the information. I could not believe how little I knew about the world of social work, but the number of families effected by this system is so vast, that I couldn’t believe how I didn’t know. It’s rewarding because I have been able to open my eyes and understand the community I live in, even though it’s not pretty and can be truly devastating. But just by knowing, I’m able to invest in my community for the better and keep pouring into it however I can.

Please share a special moment with us about your work with CASA volunteers or supporters. All of my special moments go back to when I’m in an interview with our incoming volunteers and we get to the root of why they are here. Why you want to be a volunteer is such a personal and beautiful story and the fact that I get to have candid conversations every day as to why these people are making the jump to join the organization is truly so special.

What would you say to a potential supporter? Do not take this consideration lightly. What our CASAs do is emotionally trying. Taking on the trauma of a child is so hard and it’s not something to do on a whim. You have so much support from our team, but understanding that this being a CASA is a role where you change someone’s life should be taken with the utmost consideration.

Why do you think it’s important for your local community to support CASA and what they do? No one is better or exempt for falling into this life. It touches everyone on every socioeconomic or racial spectrum and is deeply rooted in this community. I think once the community knows about how much is happening right under their noses, there is no way to turn away and pretend it’s not.

Do you want to share some encouraging words to our volunteers? We live in a world where we need to see immediate change and have immediate results. You might become a CASA and not see that right away and think “why am I here”, “why doesn’t this kid talk to me”, “why aren’t these people doing their jobs”, but just remembering that (as cliché as it sounds), just by being consistent and showing up every time, you are truly making a LIFE LONG impact in a child’s life that could be changing the trajectory for the better. Live in that mindset and lean on your CASA staff for support and you’ll see that change!

Meet CASA Volunteer Susan Jarratt

1. What made you decide to become a CASA? I’ve always dreamed of becoming a CASA.  As an educator, I’ve taught foster children, and they usually move to a new placement quickly.  I wanted the opportunity to have a positive impact on a foster child in a more profound and meaningful way.

2. What has been the most rewarding part of being a CASA? Recently two of my kids were placed with foster parents that were brand new.  They couple didn’t know the ages of the children so it was hard for them to prepare.  After finding out their needs, I was able to reach out to the community and get toys, books, clothes, and diapers.  The first time I saw my boys in their new placement, they were so excited!  Seeing them happy and seeing them grow both physically and emotionally is so rewarding. 

3. Please share a special moment with us about your advocacy work with your CASA kid or on your case. Recently two of my kids were placed with foster parents that were brand new.  They couple didn’t know the ages of the children so it was hard for them to prepare.  After finding out their needs, I was able to reach out to the community and get toys, books, clothes, and diapers.  The first time I saw my boys in their new placement, they were so excited!  Seeing them happy and seeing them grow both physically and emotionally is so rewarding. 

4. What is your favorite way to connect with your CASA kids? I love reading with my CASA kids.  Even if I do a virtual visit, I always send them the book so they can enjoy it over and over again.  My Kindergartener is now hooked on Piggy & Elephant books.  Sharing that joy is priceless.

5. Why do you think having a CASA volunteer throughout such a chaotic time is important for foster children? Being a CASA allows the children some consistency and positivity during a time of chaos.  Consistency helps them feel safe, and that’s what they need most.

Celebrating Black History Month

February, as we all know, is Black History Month. A dedicated time of the year where we honor, recognize, and celebrate the history, accomplishments, and importance of Black Americans. Texas CASA CEO, Vicki Spriggs, writes about the importance of race and the racial inequities and systems that continue to plague on the Black community and communities of color.

Take 5 minutes out of your day to learn and grow from the resources Vicki Spriggs and Texas CASA provided: https://texascasa.org/2023/02/07/resources-for-child-welfare-advocates-during-black-history-month-beyond/

Meet Board President Charlie Scherer

We are excited to spotlight our new Board President Charlie Scherer!

“I have the honor of serving as the President of the Board of CASA of Tarrant County this year. This is my 7th year of service to the organization, and I am so excited to see the progress we continue to make as we serve the children of Tarrant County. I was first introduced to the organization by my wife through her sorority, Kappa Alpha Theta while in college at the University of Oklahoma. Upon returning to Fort Worth, I became involved with the Tarrant County organization through the inaugural Pull For Kids Clay Shoot in 2017 and they’ve been stuck with me ever since!

My wife MK and I have two young children, Henry and Carter. I often times reflect on how our advocates and employees are the only constant adult in a child’s life. The impact they have can really change the trajectory of their story. Our team works tirelessly for the kids of Tarrant County and the results speak for themselves as we continue to reduce the time spent in foster care and increase the number of children who find a permanent living situation.

As we celebrate our 40-year anniversary I would like to honor the progress that we’ve made and the lives that we’ve impacted. Additionally, I would like to challenge ourselves to keep fighting to serve more children and provide even better care, so that we can have an even greater impact over the next 40 years.”

Meet CASA Volunteer Charlotte Toerck

What made you decide to become a CASA? I have been blessed with a close family, good education and a fulfilling career.  For most of my life the focus has been on family and career.  There  never seemed to be enough time to give to a worthy cause.  After retirement, I started searching for something I could do that would make a quantifiable difference in the lives of others.  A quote that has been attributed to Mahatma Gandhi among others has always resonated with me.  "The true measure of any society can be found in how it treats its most vulnerable members."  As I was researching volunteer opportunities, it became clear that children in Foster Care are among the most vulnerable members in society.  A friend told me about CASA and the work it does for these children.  I was immediately drawn to this cause and became a CASA volunteer to help children who need an advocate to be their voice when they are feeling hopeless and powerless.

What has been the most rewarding part of being a CASA? Being a CASA has been rewarding in so many ways it is difficult to single out just one.  However, the most consistently rewarding part of being a CASA volunteer is being able to form a bond of trust with the children I work with as well as the significant adults in their lives.  This takes time and effort given the circumstances that resulted in their being involved in the Foster Care system.  This bond is the foundation on which my advocacy is built.  It creates an atmosphere that allows open communication about the wants, needs, and hopes of each individual.  This allows me to focus advocacy on the most important issues from their perspective.  It also helps identify issues that can be addressed with existing resources of which they are not aware.  Being able to help children get their immediate needs met and building hope for the future is for me the most rewarding part of being a CASA.

Please share a special moment with us about your advocacy work with your CASA kid or on your case. I have been a CASA for one child for four years.  She is now a teenager and has been involved with the juvenile justice system for the last two years.  During this time, she has gone for months with no contact with her family or professionals assigned to her case.  Although I can't call her while she is in detention, she calls me several times a week to talk about her successes, challenges and ask for advice about things that are important to most teenage girls.  I make sure to visit her as often as I can - especially on birthdays and holidays.  Recently we were talking about an upcoming Court Hearing.  I wanted to make sure that my report accurately portrayed her wants and needs regarding conditional release from detention.  At the end of the conversation, she thanked me for speaking up for her and making her wishes known to the Court.  Then she said, "I trust you, man.  You're my family, ya know?"  This was both rewarding and humbling as I realized the pivotal role my involvement played in the darkest and most difficult times in her young life. 

What is your favorite way to connect with your CASA kids? Connecting with my CASA kids varies depending on their age.  However, in person visits when possible are my favorite way of  connecting with all of my children.  With my younger children, we play games, colour or read.  This gives us a chance to talk about significant events in their lives in a natural setting.  With my older children, we may draw, do crafts, or just talk.  I know that I've formed a connection with them when they start wanting the relationship to be reciprocal.  They start asking me how my week was, my plans for the future, and many of the same questions I typically ask them!  That is when I know we've formed a true trust-based connection.  

Why do you think having a CASA volunteer throughout such a chaotic time is important for foster children? A CASA volunteer provides consistency as a child is moved from placement to placement and as the professionals assigned to their case come and go.  The CASA is  the 'historian' for the child.  They literally speak for the child to others who only know what they learned by reviewing files.   By knowing and sharing the child's history and using it as the basis of their advocacy, the CASA helps reduce the chaos, stress and fear the child experiences

Young Professional Council Turns One!

The start of 2023 has officially arrived. Have you thought of your new resolutions for the year? Does it include eating healthier, drinking less caffeine, having less road rage? Awesome – these are great resolutions! But have you been toying with the idea of volunteering more and giving back to the community? Is your hesitation that your schedule just doesn’t have a lot of wiggle room? Well, it’s a little-known fact that CASA of Tarrant County has a Young Professional Council, and it just turned one!

The Young Professional Council benefiting CASA of Tarrant County is an auxiliary group that works in conjunction to CASA’s mission and vision. These young professionals, between the ages of 21-39, are incredibly busy with their careers and homelife that volunteering as a full-time advocate is just not feasible. Right now. 

The council serves to raise awareness and funding for CASA, whether it’s hosting an information table at a rotary meeting or a local city event or hosting our Annual Kids on Canvas event (Save the Date: 10/19/2023 at The 4 Eleven!).

Let’s work together to better our communities and help our kiddos.

Are you ready to make the first step to better your community this year? Reach out to Victoria Bittmenn at victoria.bittmenn@casatc.org today to talk more about the Young Professional Council!

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The Young Professional Council’s Mission:

The mission of the Young Professional Council is to raise awareness for Tarrant County CASA, as well as to provide social and charitable opportunities for people between the ages of 21 and 39 years old. Membership is open to any young professional between the ages of 21-39 who wants to make an impact on the lives of children who have been abused and neglected in our community.

The Young Professional Council’s Purpose:

The CASA Young Professional Council exists as a group of young volunteers who serve as an outreach, networking, and fundraising arm of Tarrant County CASA.

Meet CASA Volunteer Norma Davila

What made you decide to become a CASA? From an early age and based on personal life experiences as a child, I felt led to serve children in my community. Prior to volunteering with CASA I served elementary aged children through ECP (Early Childhood Professional) and young moms with unplanned pregnancies through Embrace Grace. Throughout this time, I realized that the need for someone to speak up starts at an early age. By lending my time and utilizing CASA as a platform, I have had the privilege of seeing families reuniting and new families formed, while loving and supporting those still on their journey.

What has been the most rewarding part of being a CASA? The most rewarding aspect of being a CASA for me is witnessing a development of confidence, security, and character in each one of my cases. Not one has been the same, but I have been able to find joy in watching each of the children grow and let their inner light truly shine.

Please share a special moment with us about your advocacy work with your CASA kid or on your case. I can recall, on a recent visit during candid conversation with the two twin girls on my current case I asked these beautiful sisters “What would you girls like for your birthday?” to which they replied, almost in unison, “Ride a pony!!”. I thought instantly of how I could make this dream come true. With Foster Mom's permission, I was able to quickly gather a local Trusty Steed owner and a couple of pairs of boots for the girls. Before no time, we were on our way to a horse ride! The joy that radiated from each of their faces was a sight to see. Definitely one of the most special moments as a CASA.

What is your favorite way to connect with your CASA kids? My favorite way to connect with my CASA kids always includes a book or two! During Covid, while we were only permitted to video calls, reading books to them was something we all looked forward to. Foster mom even asked me to record myself reading one that became their favorite, so that she could play it for them at bed time.  Even now, when I arrive for my in-home visits, the sisters come running with a book in hand.

Why do you think having a CASA volunteer throughout such a chaotic time is important for foster children? I believe that having a CASA is important because oftentimes we are the only consistent face in their life. The security in knowing and recognizing a voice and face during an uncertain time can bring much peace. 

Meet Board Member Jon McCartney

Jonathan (Jon) McCartney | Senior Vice President, Land and Legal at Double Eagle Energy Holdings IV

A short message of support for volunteers: Thank you! You are making a direct impact in children's lives when needed most.

Why are you involved with CASA? These children need our help. Every small decision I make or input I provide, I take very seriously as I know it can ultimately help a child who has been abused or neglected.

What first caused you to get involved with CASA? Charlie Scherer talking about CASA.

What keeps you coming back every month in helping CASA? I believe in the mission of CASA.

What would you say to a potential supporter? I would explain what a CASA does- that's nearly enough right there. Children need someone to look out for their best interest. If you are a financial person, look at amount our communities save by children having a CASA attached to their case.

Why do you think it’s important for your local community to support CASA and what they do? I believe that children are the future and instrumental to the well being and success of Tarrant County. When we invest in our children, we invest in our community.

Meet Child Advocacy Specialist Quincy Thompson

Why did you decide to come work for CASA? I had previously worked and volunteered with CASA in Alabama and realized there was a need for more to raise awareness and advocate for children in care. And although it can be challenging at times, it was a rewarding experience, and I had the chance to met some amazing people. So when I moved to Texas, it seemed fitting that CASA would be a good choice.

What is your professional and educational background? I have a Master's Degree in Social Work.

What first caused you to get involved with CASA? After working in the medical field for several years and I wanted a change. A friend encouraged me to apply for a position with CASA and I received a job offer and accepted it.

What keeps you coming back every month in helping CASA? As a CASA employee, we hear so many heart wrenching stories and situations of families who are or have experienced some type of abuse, exploitation, or neglect. I have seen first-hand the difference CASA makes by encouraging children and showing up to advocate for their best interest.

What has been the most rewarding part of being on staff at CASA? I would have to say seeing children in care find their forever home, with relatives or an adoptive family. Participating in National Adoption Day this year really gave me a fresh awareness of why we do what we do.

Please share a special moment with us about your work with CASA volunteers or supporters. We value our volunteers and recognize that each one of them brings a unique set of knowledge and skills with them, whether it’s a background in computer science, ministry experience, or a degree in education. They motivate us to do more and explore new avenues to reach more families in need as they give selflessly of their time, energy, and talents.

What would you say to a potential supporter? There is always a need to be filled with the children and families that we serve. Whether it's building a positive relationship with a child, helping with community events, or donating funds so that CASA can serve more child in need. They are all essential to making a difference in a child's life.

Why do you think it’s important for your local community to support CASA and what they do? I have learned that sometimes we may not always truly understand or even see the impact that we may have on communities we serve, but we do have an opportunity to plant a seed each time we encounter a child and a family in need by showing kindness and help remind them that they are seen, cared for, and heard.

Never underestimate the power of showing up or lending a listening ear because it speaks volumes to a child or anyone whose whole world has capsized.

Do you want to share some encouraging words to our volunteers? I have seen and heard countless stories about why children are removed from the care of their parents, and my prayer is that someday the stories about how families have been reunited and rebuilt with love and support will out number the former.

Meet CASA Volunteer Bill Huston

Meet CASA Volunteer Bill Huston! Bill has lived in Southlake for the last 29 years. Originally from Oak Ridge, TN, Bill moved to the DFW area from Tampa, FL, in 1993 when the healthcare business he was working for opened an office in Dallas. When Bill first moved to Texas, he was the Senior Vice President (SVP) of Finance for Tenet. Later, he took on the role of SVP for Triad Hospitals, Inc., located in Plano. When they sold the company in 2007, he decided to retire and step away from the business world. That didn’t last long though, and soon Bill was working as the SVP of Finance for a hospice company. He retired for a second time in 2013 and enjoyed the slower pace of retirement for a short time before getting restless once again. He soon stepped into the role of CFO for Scottish Rite for Children. In 2020, with an assist from Covid, he decided to try retirement a third time, and this time it worked. He has no interest in having another paid position and is perfectly content with his role as a full time Uber driver for his grandkids – so far, it’s the best job he’s ever had.

Bill enjoys spending time with his family – his three children, their spouses, and his eight grandchildren. His daughter, Hollee, is married to Sam Ford, and together they have four children: Marlee (14), Lilly (14), Beau (14), and Nash (7). Bill’s oldest son, Chad, is married to Lisa, and they have a daughter, Zinnia (6). Heath is the youngest of Bill’s children and is married to JuliAnne. They have three children: Everly (8), Charlotte (6), and Jett (1).

Bill’s family has many traditions, but his favorite is taking a one-week family vacation each year with the entire gang. Although it’s challenging with such a large group, everyone enjoys the adventure and time spent together. This past year, they traveled to the North Island of Turks and Caicos, which Bill says may be one of the best vacations they’ve had together.

When Bill isn’t traveling or driving the grandkids around, you can often find him at hot yoga or outdoors taking part in a variety of sports. He currently plays on two senior softball teams and two senior baseball teams, and plays pickleball, tennis, and golf. According to Bill, his very active lifestyle helps him hang with the grandkids. Bill is also a volunteer CFO for E3 in Plano, a non-profit organization that establishes churches all over the world and supports missionaries in many foreign countries.

In addition to E3, Bill spends several hours a month volunteering for one of his favorite organizations, CASA of Tarrant County. Bill is a court-appointed volunteer with CASA, taking an oath to advocate for the best interest of children. As an advocate, Bill speaks for children in court, making fact-based recommendations for placement to the judge based on his discussions with the children, family members, teachers and others to find out where the children will be happiest and safest. Bill is a reliable constant for children who are experiencing a chaotic time in their lives.

According to Bill, one of the most rewarding parts of being a CASA is the unique connection you have with your assigned child. “It’s just simple moments of spending time with the child. My child is a little introverted – spends lots of time on social media. I’ve had him on a skateboard, throwing a football, and shooting basketball. I think all kids should sweat some after school, and I encourage my child to enjoy the outdoors – although I did have to make a deal with him to play Uno each time I was there. It’s been a very humbling experience.”

Although Bill had some initial concerns as to whether he was qualified to navigate the maze of agencies often required for foster children, the CASA organization has helped him every step of the way. They have the best support system and will take a problem or issue if it’s beyond Bill’s knowledge or experience.

Bill encourages other adults to consider becoming a CASA. It takes about five hours a month and your initial commitment is one year. He especially encourages men to get involved. “If you want to change a family tree – come join us. These boys need a father figure in their life – someone they can reach out to if they happen to change foster parents or an event in their life where they need to feel secure or cared for. They didn’t choose their circumstance, but we as men can choose to get involved. I don’t think giving five hours of our time is much of a request when you have a child in need.”

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Bill is the featured neighbor of the month of December in Stroll Our Neighborhood Magazine! In this feature, Bill talks about his work with CASA. Click here to read.

Celebrating a Month of Cheer

As we approach a time of celebrations, let us explore the holidays being celebrated and why they are important to our CASA families. 

Beginning the evening of December 10 and lasting eight days until December 18, Hanukkah or Chanukah celebrates the rededication of the Second Temple in Jerusalem, where Jews had risen up against their Greek-Syrian oppressors known as the Maccabean Revolt. Also known commonly as the “Festival of Lights,” Hanukkah begins on the 25th of Kislev on the Hebrew calendar with the lighting of the menorah-- the gold candelabrum whose seven branches represent knowledge and creation. The Hanukkah “Miracle” proclaims that once the Jews had successfully driven the Syrians out of Jerusalem, Judah Maccabee called on his followers to cleanse the Second Temple, rebuild its altar, and light the menorah. Although there was only enough oil for the menorah to remain lit for a single day, the flames continued to burn for eight nights. Jewish families keep the spirit of the miracle alive by lighting the menorah, eating traditional foods, and playing traditional games. 

On December 25, Christians around the world gather to celebrate the holiday known as Christmas. This day marks the anniversary of Jesus of Nazareth’s birth. Nearly 2000 years ago, God sent the angel Gabriel to a young woman named Mary who was engaged to Joseph. The angel told Mary that she would become pregnant by the Holy Spirit and give birth to the Son of God to be named Jesus. When it came time for Jesus to be born, Mary and Joseph set out on a journey for Bethlehem where they could not find a place to stay so the only place they could find was a manger full of animals. Here the Son of God was born and Wise Men gifted the new King with gold, frankincense, and myrrh. Following the traditions first started by St. Nicholas, today, Christmas is celebrated with giving gifts, decorating Christmas trees, attending Church, sharing meals with family and friends, and waiting for Santa Claus to arrive. St. Nicholas would secretly travel to the countryside to bring gifts to the poor and sick to remind children of the greatest gift of all, Jesus Christ. 

On December 26, the African-American cultural celebration of Kwanzaa begins and lasts until January 1 of the new year. Created in 1966 by Dr. Maulana Karenga, Kwanzaa celebrates the African-American culture following the Watts Rebellion known as the Watts Riots that broke out in August of 1965. The Watts Rebellion lasted for six days in the predominantly Black neighborhood of Watts in Los Angeles, California, which resulted in 34 deaths, 1,032 injuries, 4,000 arrests, involving 34,000 people and the destruction of 1,000 buildings. What began with a white police officer pulling over stepbrothers Marquette and Ronald Frye and arresting Marquette for a failed sobriety test, led to the outbreak of riots between the surrounding crowds and police forces. Kwanzaa remembers the brutality that took place against the African-American communities around the country during this time and honors African heritage with “first fruit” harvest celebrations. On each of the seven nights, families gather and a child lights one of the candles on the Kinara and one of the seven principles, Nguzo Saba, is discussed. Umoja, Kujichagulia, Ujima, Ujamaa, Nia, Kuumba, and Imani are the seven principles of African culture that contribute to building and reinforcing community among African-Americans. The African feast of Karamu is held on December 31. Families celebrate with songs and dances, African drums, storytelling, poetry readings, and large traditional meals. 

We are wishing all of our CASA families very happy holidays this season!

Reflecting on Adoption Awareness Month

What started as a week-long initiative of adoption awareness in 1984 by President Reagan, has grown to become a month-long celebration of adoption in the United States. As an initiative from the Children’s Bureau, the goal of dedicating the month of November to this issue is to increase the awareness around adoption issues and highlight the need for youth and teen adoption from the foster care system. In particular, the Children’s Bureau emphasizes the importance of teen adoption, as teens experience more difficulty with finding a permanent home and so often “age out” of the system. Being on their own, they are at a higher risk of experiencing homelessness, unemployment, lack of access to healthcare, as well as other social and behavioral issues, which is why adoption is critical to the child’s health, well-being, and future success in the world.

This year’s National Adoption Month theme is “Small Steps Open Doors.” Meaning that taking small steps to help the youth in foster care be adopted and provide them a permanent home can create a lifetime of opportunities for them to succeed in life.  Consider taking these small steps:

Take the time to listen and talk to youth and teens in the foster care system. Consider becoming a mentor as being someone the child can turn to for support and guidance.

Get involved with a local organization that champions advocacy for youth in the foster care system, like CASA of Tarrant County!

Donate supplies or craft “welcome” boxes for the child to take to their foster homes as they await permanent placement.

Raise funds and make a donation to organizations that help children get adopted.

 Little things can make such a life changing difference in the lives of the foster care children in need of support. Learn how you can speak up for abused and neglected children by visiting CASA’s website https://www.speakupforachild.org/

Meet CASA Volunteer Allison Wendler

What made you decide to become a CASA? I have always been interested in foster care and adoption. I have been a both a foster parent and an adoptive parent and I know how badly these kids need someone on their side. Plus I believe that if you have a cause you are highly interested in that you should get involved and do something. Many hands make light work and the world would be a better place if everyone just pitched in a little!

What has been the most rewarding part of being a CASA? The most rewarding part of being a CASA is knowing that my work has made an impact on the case. My child’s case has been topsy turvy with many changes in placement, school, caseworker, family involvement, etc. in a relatively short amount of time. If he did not have a CASA there would be no one familiar with the case from start to finish.

Please share a special moment with us about your advocacy work with your CASA kid or on your case. Recently I was unable to visit my child in person and had to FaceTime. I was initially worried how this would go as he is pretty young and not much into conversation. However, it ended up being one of our best visits. He was so interested in my family, pets, home and it was fun to see him come out of his shell asking questions and interacting. An hour flew by!

What is your favorite way to connect with your CASA kids? When I visit with my child I like to bring several options: books, games, puzzles, craft and let him choose what he wants to do. That is usually play a game or do a puzzle. I also like to take him lunch at school. I think every child feels extra special when a grown up shows up at school with a special meal and this is a good way to let them know that they are important!

Why do you think having a CASA volunteer throughout such a chaotic time is important for foster children? I think it is important for a child to have a consistent face during this chaotic time. When placements, caseworkers, etc. are unpredictable it is important for them to know that *someone* is going to consistently show up for them. Many of these kids have never had an adult in their life that was reliable. This helps lay the foundation for trust and attachment when they get to their permanent place. Also, from a practical standpoint, it is good to have someone who is familiar with the case from beginning to end and can help brief everyone when there are changes.

Black Hair Care Initiative

Did you know that last year in 2021, out of the confirmed 6,511 victims of child abuse and neglect in Tarrant County, 40% identified as Black? As a victim of child abuse and neglect, children are already struggling to maintain some sense of normalcy during such a chaotic time in their lives. Having trouble with their hair, shouldn’t be a struggle. Hair care is certainly a type of self-care, however for these kiddos, it’s also a confidence builder. 

There are all sorts of different hair types. But for many Black children, they aren’t receiving proper hair care, education, or resources for them to utilize and practice day in and day out. And if a child goes to a residential treatment center or group home, they aren’t typically equipped to provide proper hair care.

From CASA of Tarrant County Supervisor Tracy Williams: “From providing advocates who offer appropriate cultural competency, to making sure these kids have the proper resources for grooming, we need to do more for Black and African-American children in foster care.”

CASA of Tarrant County is teaming up with Our Community Our Kids (OCOK) to provide Black Care Summits. Children will be able to learn how to properly care for their hair and embrace their inner beauty. The first Black Hair Care Summit was held on Saturday, October 22nd and was hosted by Studio BW Salon & Barber in Duncanville. Each Summit will include a free consultation, free hair styling, enrichment on beauty and self-care, and a boost in self-confidence! 

Interested in helping or supporting Black Hair Care Summits? Please contact Tracy Williams at tracy.williams@casatc.org or at 817-877-5891.

National Make a Difference Day

October 22 is officially National Make a Difference Day!

Hear from CASA Staff Members on how YOU can make a difference in a child’s life:

“When a child enters foster care, their entire world is turned upside down. Oftentimes, it continues to rapidly change during the duration of their stay in care. Having a CASA volunteer can change that negative perspective for a child. While their family situation may or may not improve enough for them to return home, or their caseworkers may continually turn over, a CASA volunteer provides a stable presence for them; through thick and thin. This is not something that can be measured on paper, but rather in what can be referred to as "their CASA moments."

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“A CASA volunteer is there for the child every step of the way: every placement change, missed visit from the child’s guardian, caseworker change, court decision that does not result in permanency for their child. They are also there for their first steps, school events, holidays, and all the quiet moments of just being there with their kids. When a CASA volunteer is committed to being there for a child, it slowly builds a trust between them and that child and it teaches them that "not everyone will leave them" or abandon them. When a CASA volunteer is able to say they were there to comfort a child after a letdown from someone else or cheer them on at a band concert or sporting event, or help them fill out applications for a job, they can say that this is their "why." This consistency makes a dramatic difference in the life of a child for years to come.”

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 “When we see children reach out to contact to their CASA volunteer to tell them about exciting or upsetting news, the CASA volunteer knows they are teaching that child how to be in a positive relationship with another person - that they are worthy of someone's time and efforts. These moments usually do not come in quick succession, but rather slowly over time. Sometimes an advocate does not recognize that these little moments add up to a large, positive change they helped create for that child until someone else helps them see it. It's powerful when such positive progress happens for a child because you know that while that child may be someone who has learned not to trust the world around them, a seed is planted that maybe they can learn to trust one person at a time.”

The advocacy of a CASA Volunteer today makes a lifetime of change for a child’s future.

Meet CASA Volunteer Janet Shearer

What made you decide to become a CASA? Personal life experiences are what called me to become involved in CASA, a way to bring a voice to the children who needed it most. Throughout my life I have witnessed children, friends, and students experience hardships of things they had no control over. A safe place to live, regular meals and support to develop emotionally, developmentally and academically. As a mother, I watched my own children bring friends home who were not being provided their basic needs. As a teacher I worked with children who often did not have their basic needs met. Growing up with a special needs sister I understand when people can not speak for themselves speaking up for them is the right thing to do.

What has been the most rewarding part of being a CASA? The most rewarding part of being a CASA is stepping up and trying to help children that you know now are hurting. On my first CASA case there were two girls, seven and an infant. Their biological mother had mental health issues, in addition to other things. The mother relied on her seven year old to care for not only the newborn, but her as well. As the story unfolded the girls moved back with the bio dad and new wife. I like to think back to a time when I brought lunch for my CASA kid at school. I listened to her talk about her dad and his wife. She seemed so happy. She talked about kid thigs like roller skating and going fishing with her dad. It gave me peace when the decision was made.

Please share a special moment with us about your advocacy work with your CASA kid or on your case. My favorite way to to connect with my CASA kids is meeting them at their school for lunch. It is a great opportunity to learn more about them and see them with their teachers and friends. I find out about the classes they are taking, and what they like to eat. Most importantly, I get to spend time with them without their bio and foster siblings. It re enforces that I am there for them and them only. I enjoy spending time with my casa kids and love bringing a smile to their face.

Why do you think having a CASA volunteer throughout such a chaotic time is important for foster children? A CASA provides stability. Foster homes, schools, family dynamics, rules, expectations and friendships all change, way too often for these children. It is a unfamiliar and an often scary time for them. A CASA advocate can be the only adult that stays in contact with them throughout this process. It is this reason I try to really work with foster parents because they spend the most time with the kids and its hard if they keep changing foster homes. Also if possible, I have siblings move to the same foster home so they don't have to worry about their siblings.

CASA Kids on Canvas One-Night Gallery Event

Support CASA of Tarrant County through their upcoming event, CASA Kids on Canvas!

CASA Kids on Canvas benefiting CASA (Court Appointed Special Advocates) of Tarrant County is back and better than ever!

 This event is a special one-night gallery showcasing artwork created by children of all ages that are currently in foster care.

 Each year, thousands of children in Tarrant County are confirmed victims of child abuse and neglect. These children have experienced terrible trauma – turning their lives upside down. Child Protective Services takes legal responsibility for them and may place them in a foster home or other facility. Due to too few foster homes, siblings are often split up into different places. Children are rarely able to stay in their own schools, day cares, or communities. Everything they have known is gone. Through no fault of their own, these abused children have become a part of an overburdened child welfare system. They deserve a voice in the courtroom. They need a CASA volunteer.

 “I’m for the child that is convinced that the horrible acts of abuse and neglect they have suffered is somehow their fault… every child that needs a CASA has someone out there, who is fiercely advocating on their behalf. For better or worse, children are our future. Every child deserves a safe, healthy home to live in.” – Matt Opitz, Board of Directors Board Member

 Being in foster care, these children often feel disconnected due to the circumstances that placed them in care. CASA volunteers help them feel as normal as possible, while advocating for their best interests in court. These volunteers are specially trained and appointed by judges to speak up for these children and advocate for their unique needs in court, at school and in other settings. From helping siblings find permanent placement together, to finding a child a stable home with a relative, to uncovering information that helps reunite a loving family, volunteer advocates make incredible differences in the lives of abused and neglected children.

 Here at CASA of Tarrant County, we strongly believe that the children we serve be not only safe, but that their every need is being met. Not just educationally or medically, but also culturally. The need for volunteers is crucial. And being bilingual is a huge bonus that can only make a positive impact in a child’s life. Cristi Lantano, Child Advocacy Specialist, says “Having a bilingual advocate who can address the child’s needs, concerns, and desires in their own language, can make a huge difference in their case!”

Having a CASA volunteer and participating in CASA’s Paint Parties, where they create beautiful paintings that will be on display at our Kids on Canvas event, is often a chance for these children to have normalcy, fun and socialize with other children – and sometimes reuniting siblings. Two siblings were able to attend, Julian and Monique were able to play, paint, and laugh together as they created their artwork. Julian took the time to help Monique with her bright paints to create something that she is proud of! We’re hoping you are able to see it too!

Volunteers also report that their experience being a CASA is extremely meaningful. CASA volunteer Rebekah Sweetenham says, “The most rewarding part of being a CASA is: seeing that smile, when they feel safe with you and are at peace. Listening to their dreams in life. Experiencing milestones together…learning to speak, progressing in school, and overcoming behavioral differences… I am especially grateful for every waking moment with my kids.”

 CASA’s upcoming Kids on Canvas event will help raise funds for critical advocacy and support services to these volunteers who advocate on behalf of the abused and neglected children in Tarrant County. It will also be a great opportunity to learn more about the organization’s mission and network with other supporters. You don’t want to miss out! Join us Thursday, October 20, 2022, 5-7:30pm at The 4 Eleven off South Main in Fort Worth. Sponsors of this fun event include TPG, M-Pak, The Law Offices of Veronica Garza, Charlie & MK Scherer, Fort Worth Roots Podcast, Society Life Magazine and Patron Magazine.

 Delicious bites and drinks will be served, and guests will have the opportunity to win premium raffle prizes such as overnight accommodations at Hotel Drover, a 10-person succulent party, admission to local museums and attractions, premium gift bags and much more. There will also be kid-friendly activities, and opportunities to take home one-of-a-kind paintings.

Registration is available online at www.speakupforachild.org/canvas

To learn more about becoming a CASA volunteer, please visit www.speakupforachild.org/become-an-advocate

Or to make a generous monetary donation, please visit www.speakupforachild.org/donate

Unidos: Inclusivity for a Stronger Nation

Hispanic Heritage Month is observed from September 15th to October 15th to “celebrate the histories, cultures and contributions of American citizens whose ancestors came from Spain, Mexico, the Caribbean and Central and South America.”. This year’s theme: “Unidos: Inclusivity for a Stronger Nation”.

Here at CASA of Tarrant County, we strongly believe that the children we serve be not only safe, but that their every need is being met. Not just educationally or medically, but also culturally. In 2021, approximately 30% of the children that we served identified as Hispanic. The need for Hispanic/Bilingual advocates is unequivocally crucial.

“It’s been so important for someone that can relate to them and understand their culture and not forget their roots.”
– Nadia Gamez, Child Advocacy Specialist

Child Advocacy Specialist Nadia Gamez includes that “bilingual advocates have made significant impacts on children - especially when it comes to how the Hispanic culture celebrates birthdays… being able to help plan a party or bring a gift during the holidays that remind them of their home, brings comfort to them in such difficult times.”

Below are some tips from our Child Advocacy Specialist Cristi Lantano:

1. Research. Research celebrations a child has and ask how they have celebrated with their families and in their country.

2. Parents of immigrant children often want their children to strictly follow their cultural traditions and values. Oftentimes, this may cause increased pressure on their children; especially as they try to adapt to the new culture.

3. Terminology. Avoid using “illegal immigrants”. Instead refer to those that have entered our country as undocumented children or families.

4. Understanding. There are extraordinary number of reasons as to why someone would want to leave their countries. For example:

   a. Escaping violence. Among the top 10 most dangerous cities on Earth include 5 cities in Mexico, 2 in Brazil, 2 in Venezuela, and 1 from South Africa.

   b.    Lack of resources. Medically, educationally, and so on.

   c.      Fight or flight mentality for a better life.

   d.     Abuse and Trafficking. Many unaccompanied children, mostly females, are abused sexually while crossing the border. But they would rather endure that horrifying experience rather than staying in their respective country.

5. Intention. Be aware and intentional when connecting with a child that is Hispanic/Latino.

Cristi shares, “Our heritage, one way or another, shapes us. When Hispanic/Latino children are in the foster care system for years, they sometimes lose their identity as they are unable to speak in their language and celebrate their customs. Having a bilingual advocate who can address the child’s needs, concerns, and desires in their own language, can make a huge difference in their case!”

Speak up for a child, today! Visit our Latinos for CASA page on our website to hear more about the incredible need for bilingual advocates: https://www.speakupforachild.org/latinos

*The selected theme was submitted by Ms. Ily Soares, Supervisory Accountant at Farm Credit Administration (FCA)*

*Ms. Irene Matos Chan, a senior Information Technology manager in the Square Tech Computer Repair &Training Center for the Castle Square Tenants Organization submitted the winning poster*